CBT post - the ABC's of Self Esteem
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flamingswordAm I returning to the CBT posts? I guess so! Long-ass prompt behind the cut.
Self-esteem has to originate somewhere, right? But where does it come from? Is it in the things we tell ourselves that we feel towards our selfhood, or is it in the actions proving those things to ourselves? Perhaps it is both the telling ourselves we have good qualities (without disqualifying those reasons) AND in recognizing our efforts and actions toward those qualities. So: it's time to play a game: below, for every letter of the alphabet, list a positive quality or neutral quality that can be seen positively.
If this is a quality that someone has told you before that you have which you did not believe them about, now is the time to write it down.
If you kinda want to put something down but think that it doesn't count because it "failed" / nobody recognized it as an effort toward that thing / you only seem to have it sometimes / some other excuse, trust me that it still counts. Write it down.
If something is "bragging" or "tooting your own horn" or "being arrogant" - I don't actually care? You're amazing! Brag on yourself a little.
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Self-esteem has to originate somewhere, right? But where does it come from? Is it in the things we tell ourselves that we feel towards our selfhood, or is it in the actions proving those things to ourselves? Perhaps it is both the telling ourselves we have good qualities (without disqualifying those reasons) AND in recognizing our efforts and actions toward those qualities. So: it's time to play a game: below, for every letter of the alphabet, list a positive quality or neutral quality that can be seen positively.
If this is a quality that someone has told you before that you have which you did not believe them about, now is the time to write it down.
If you kinda want to put something down but think that it doesn't count because it "failed" / nobody recognized it as an effort toward that thing / you only seem to have it sometimes / some other excuse, trust me that it still counts. Write it down.
If something is "bragging" or "tooting your own horn" or "being arrogant" - I don't actually care? You're amazing! Brag on yourself a little.
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Date: 2022-08-08 11:39 pm (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-08-09 12:05 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-08-09 12:14 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-08-09 01:03 am (UTC)you are boisterous (sometimes), brawny, and bright
you are colorful, cautious (sometimes), creative (always)
you are dramatic, decent, distinguished
you are effective, egalitarian, exhausted
you are friendly, frugal, and fluent
Let me know what letters you're having trouble with. ;-)
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Date: 2022-08-09 01:11 am (UTC)no subject
Date: 2022-08-09 12:02 am (UTC)B: Brave
C: Curious
D: Dashing (sometimes)
E: Entertaining (sometimes)
F: Fashionable (sometimes)
G: Generous
H: Helpful
I: Inquisitive
J: Jolly (sometimes)
K: Kooky (*snap snap*)
L: Languid
M: Meditative
N: Nervous
O: Obversive (sometimes)
P: Perseverant
Q: Qualified (sometimes)
R: Rogueish
S: Sensual (stimming counts as sensory-seeking, it's a thing I swear!)
T: Timely
U: Undaunted
V: Venturesome
W: Willful
X: Xenophilic
Y: Youthful
Z: Zebraic
You made it the bottom of my long-ass comment! Have some links to click:
https://bongo.cat/
https://www.msn.com/en-us/news/politics/former-president-donald-trump-said-fbi-agents-searched-his-mar-a-lago-home-in-palm-beach-florida/ar-AA10s84V
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Date: 2022-08-11 08:23 pm (UTC)B: Brilliant, brave
C: comedic, courageous
D: Down to earth, delightful
E: )Dunno?)
F: Funny, free-spirited, friendly
G: gregarious
H: helpful, hyumble
I: Innocent (and not in the 'I'm a child' way) (Also, help? because letter I is...I don't know many words for this except for 'independent, and that seems weird to be a trait, y'know?)
J: just, jubelant, joyful
K: knowledgeable, kind
L: loveable, languid (I like that one)
M: ...
N: Nice
O: ...?
P: pretty, patient, persistent
Q: ...?
R: ready to learn, rezilliant
S: special, smart (I feel like i'm too smart sometimes)
T: tenacious
U: Unique (Anything else?)
V: versitile:
W:...?
X:...?
Y:Youthful (For lack of something else to put here...I'd like something else, too.)
Z:...?
I honestly have no idea what to put for some of thes, others...I don't feel like fit me when my life goes sideways (Frugle for example).
I need this. My life has been so weird lately I need something to just...*sighs*
-T~
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Date: 2022-08-12 11:54 pm (UTC)