Diffusion of Responsibility, and therapizing myself

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Having the group of people on Slack that I like to keep track of did not let me know that the Tuesday night game group was still up and running and that they already had weekly meetings that I was hypothetically invited to. So I could have been more involved with my friends for years and it makes me sad that they did not communicate that to me because they all though someone else had. Diffusion of responsibility is kinda like that.

I wish I had more of it, though? I wish I did not feel responsible for everyone so much of the time. It's exhausting.

I managed to build a permanent measure to check everything I say for generalizing my experience. But I need feedback on whether that is working as planned.