Feels and some life update
Feb. 18th, 2025 09:31 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
flamingswordI’m going to blog about the feels I have, because ex-husband Ghost’s best friend’s wife left him, and now Ghost is catching a clue that I could have been way shittier to him about this breakup. Wifey Dear John’ed the best friend while he was out at the club for basically doing the same stuff that Ghost was doing last year and before- not talking on the mental load of the relationship, not including her in important life decisions, and not being curious about her interiority. She got herself and all of stuff in the 6 hours he was gone and vanished like fish tears.
I’m hearing this all secondhand through mutual friends, and wifey is not talking to Ghost’s best fiend, so it doesn’t look like they will be working through anything. 😔 I hope that Ghost and his friends use this as a bonding moment and that he is as stable.
Ghost is now acting contrite via text messaging about being uncommunicative, at least, and about being a jerk this and last month. No apology has been issued, but tomorrow I’m going to push my luck and ask him to send cat pictures. We’ll see how it goes.
In other weird-but okay news, the weather being about to dump off a bunch of snow and wintery mix slush on us means that my first half a week of classes got canceled and I’m only going to be in class this Friday. At least so I don’t have to drive in that during rush hour.
I have a headache and forget what I was going to write in here … going to go knit more and see y’all tomorrow. Mmm, oh yeah, feelings naming exercise - have to hit that up tomorrow.
Anyway, small yays add up over time. I wish us all some yay today.
I’m hearing this all secondhand through mutual friends, and wifey is not talking to Ghost’s best fiend, so it doesn’t look like they will be working through anything. 😔 I hope that Ghost and his friends use this as a bonding moment and that he is as stable.
Ghost is now acting contrite via text messaging about being uncommunicative, at least, and about being a jerk this and last month. No apology has been issued, but tomorrow I’m going to push my luck and ask him to send cat pictures. We’ll see how it goes.
In other weird-but okay news, the weather being about to dump off a bunch of snow and wintery mix slush on us means that my first half a week of classes got canceled and I’m only going to be in class this Friday. At least so I don’t have to drive in that during rush hour.
I have a headache and forget what I was going to write in here … going to go knit more and see y’all tomorrow. Mmm, oh yeah, feelings naming exercise - have to hit that up tomorrow.
Anyway, small yays add up over time. I wish us all some yay today.