It’s been a minute

[flamingsword]

At long last —> https://imgur.com/a/9Bxctz8 <-- link to pictures for anyone who wants to help me de-stash my fabric. I will send you stuff, for free, if you will help me get it out of my house. Comment to ask questions about fabric, etc., and if you have a friend who wants to get in on this, you can link them.

I have been feeling mostly neutral this week, because all of my emotional bandwidth is being taken up in background processes, so I have mostly been trying to stay away from the internet this week after I commented something accidentally offensive on someone else’s post. 🤦 Brains, and their lack of external memory backups. Such a design flaw.

I am doing okay, we are in couples counseling, we’re going to try to not get divorced, but won’t really be making decisions about our relationship and what it will be/mean going forward for a while yet. If I read your stuff anytime soon and all you get is a heart emoji comment, just take it as read that I don’t know how to/trust myself to react in a way that is fully sensitive and up to my usual standard of care about y’all.

*hugs and squishes*

Comments

[ex_flameandsong751]

-hugs-

Sometimes when someone steps on another's toes, they don't realize the toes/trigger was there, doubly so if Stuff Is Going On and the stress is higher than usual. I appreciate the care and concern with the emoji until you feel your way around boundaries.

[flamingsword]

Thanks.

[cassildra]

I think what you're doing with regards to the heart emoji is smart. It's better than I end up doing, sometimes.

Hugs!

[flamingsword]

It’s also better than I end up doing sometimes, which is why I’m trying it out this way. I want to connect with people right now, but I don’t have the bandwidth for doing a decent job of it, so we’re just going to let people know that they are seen and save deepening connections for later.

[gingicat]

Wishing you well!

[flamingsword]

Thanks. 💜

[sabotabby]

Good luck, and many hugs.

[flamingsword]

Thank you and many return hugs.

[numb3r_5ev3n]

I can come over tomorrow to look at/get fabric if it's convenient.

[flamingsword]

If you want stuff and have room for it, then you’re welcome to it. We can also sort through the yarn tomorrow, if you want?

[numb3r_5ev3n]

Sure!

Are you back on the no sugar diet?

[flamingsword]

I am still having bread, bc it is the hardest thing to shake, but yeah, I’m back to being sugar-free.

[numb3r_5ev3n]

Ok. I won't bring baked goods. I also just tested for covid today and am still negative.

[sabethea]

*hug*

[flamingsword]

Thanks, hon.

[minoanmiss]

/oh wow free cloth! how best to promote you? r kind giveaway ? And all good relatinship fortune! I hope I make sense.

[flamingsword]

At this point, I’m not sure I need much promotion, but you’re welcome to share the link on your journal.

And I thank you for the good wishes.

[princessofgeeks]

Wishing you all the best. Don't worry about us. We will be here.

[flamingsword]

Thanks. 💜

[motorharp]

Oh wow, that's a lot. I hope you are able to sort through and process all the things.

I was excited to see the Vogue 1000. If that is still available, I would like it!

[flamingsword]

It is! DM me your address, and I’ll mail that out this week.

[lokifan]

Sending love! I hope it gets easier.

[flamingsword]

Me, too! And it should.