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This is bothering me: I have a thought about how we quantify value among relationships that I cannot articulate. It flows up into the dysfunctions of codependence, but is the reason why people in such relationships cannot see them for what they are, therefore it has to underlie the definition of codependence. It's hard to think in terms of how we define the reality of things, because we all share group delusions about where those lines are drawn. That's what culture is.

And I'm just going to have to let you guys hang in the wind until I can articulate. :\