why I am freaked out *this time*

[flamingsword]

So Ghost and I don't argue. I mean - we may debate the ethicality of vampire genocide in the True Blood universe and other geekery, but we don't have relationship arguments. We have yet to have a problem more pressing than which configuration of locked or unlocked means that the dishes in the dishwasher are clean. I don't . . . this NEVER HAPPENS. I realize that there is some BS about not looking gift horses in the mouth, but I am looking into this equine grin and it seems to have a platinum grill.

I DON'T GET IT.

I look back to previous relationships and they were not like this and I have no context and so don't even know where to start identifying whether this is even a problem. HELP!!!

Comments

[kadairk.livejournal.com]

So, chill and breathe.

No two relationships are going to be the same. We use previous experiences to *predict* current patterns, but reality doesn't always match our predictions. (See "weather forecasting".)

If you don't argue, but do communicate about important things, then accept and trust that this is how *this* relationship works, and add it to your file of relationship models. Also realize that one day you might have an argument, but don't be too thrown by that should it happen.

[jslorentz.livejournal.com]

She speaks from experience!