flamingsword: Knitting needles and yarn (Crafting)
flamingsword ([personal profile] flamingsword) wrote2023-05-06 01:05 pm

It’s been a minute

At long last —> https://imgur.com/a/9Bxctz8 <-- link to pictures for anyone who wants to help me de-stash my fabric. I will send you stuff, for free, if you will help me get it out of my house. Comment to ask questions about fabric, etc., and if you have a friend who wants to get in on this, you can link them.

I have been feeling mostly neutral this week, because all of my emotional bandwidth is being taken up in background processes, so I have mostly been trying to stay away from the internet this week after I commented something accidentally offensive on someone else’s post. 🤦 Brains, and their lack of external memory backups. Such a design flaw.

I am doing okay, we are in couples counseling, we’re going to try to not get divorced, but won’t really be making decisions about our relationship and what it will be/mean going forward for a while yet. If I read your stuff anytime soon and all you get is a heart emoji comment, just take it as read that I don’t know how to/trust myself to react in a way that is fully sensitive and up to my usual standard of care about y’all.

*hugs and squishes*
ex_flameandsong751: An androgynous-looking guy: short grey hair under rainbow cat ears hat, wearing silver Magen David and black t-shirt, making a peace sign, background rainbow bokeh. (cats: Archie kitten basket)

[personal profile] ex_flameandsong751 2023-05-06 08:19 pm (UTC)(link)
-hugs-

Sometimes when someone steps on another's toes, they don't realize the toes/trigger was there, doubly so if Stuff Is Going On and the stress is higher than usual. I appreciate the care and concern with the emoji until you feel your way around boundaries.