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flamingsword) wrote2015-10-11 11:59 am
flamingsword) wrote2015-10-11 11:59 am
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Things to make habits of
Gratitude, naming your emotions, making choices and touching people.
Sum up
Here’s what brain research says will make you happy:
Ask “What am I grateful for?” No answers? Doesn’t matter. Just searching helps.
Label those negative emotions. Give it a name and your brain isn’t so bothered by it.
Decide. Go for “good enough” instead of “best decision ever made on Earth.”
Hugs, hugs, hugs. Don’t just text — touch.
From The Upward Spiral:
"Trying for the best, instead of good enough, brings too much emotional ventromedial prefrontal activity into the decision-making process. In contrast, recognizing that good enough is good enough activates more dorsolateral prefrontal areas, which helps you feel more in control …"
Sum up
Here’s what brain research says will make you happy:
From The Upward Spiral:
"Trying for the best, instead of good enough, brings too much emotional ventromedial prefrontal activity into the decision-making process. In contrast, recognizing that good enough is good enough activates more dorsolateral prefrontal areas, which helps you feel more in control …"