The wife and I also do not have many "arguments." We sometimes have emotional discussions and occasionally those emotions move a little out of our control, bordering the "heated conversation/argument line", but VERY RARELY in our ~6 years of being together have we had an "argument."
I used plenty of quotes there, because language is a fluid thing and we'd have to be in person defining everything clearly to get it right, but what I'm saying is that this isn't a problem to worry about.
Well, it's not a problem so as long as you **DO** discuss important topics and **OFTEN** say honest things the other person won't like and **STILL** don't devolve into arguing. If this is the case, then you're just both mature and reasonably in control of your emotions and not trying to take advantage of each other.
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I used plenty of quotes there, because language is a fluid thing and we'd have to be in person defining everything clearly to get it right, but what I'm saying is that this isn't a problem to worry about.
Well, it's not a problem so as long as you **DO** discuss important topics and **OFTEN** say honest things the other person won't like and **STILL** don't devolve into arguing. If this is the case, then you're just both mature and reasonably in control of your emotions and not trying to take advantage of each other.